(based on the kind of love I was in the mood for)
Let me be honest.
I don’t watch romance for the same reason every time.
Some days, I want something soft.
Something that feels like a warm cup of tea and doesn’t ask too many questions.
And some days?
I want chaos.
Emotional damage.
The kind of storyline that makes me sit there like
“this is not healthy… but I’m invested.”
So instead of ranking romance based on what’s “best”…
I started thinking about it differently.
I ranked them based on what kind of love they give you.
🥇 The “this is going to hurt a little” love
→ NORMAL PEOPLE
This is not dramatic in the obvious way.
No grand gestures.
No over-the-top scenes.
Just two people who keep finding each other… and somehow still get it wrong.
It’s quiet. Intimate. Slightly frustrating.
And painfully real.
You don’t watch this for a perfect ending.
You watch it for the almost part.
🥈 The “I didn’t expect to care this much” love
→ SOMEONE GREAT
This one starts like a breakup story.
And you think — okay, this will be sad.
But then it turns into something else entirely.
It becomes about:
- friendship
- moving on
- choosing yourself
And somewhere in between, you realise this is also a love story — just not the one you expected.
🥉 The “unexpected but soft” love
→ LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT
This one feels like a coincidence that actually worked out.
Two strangers. One connection.
And suddenly, life feels slightly different.
It’s simple, but not shallow.
The kind of story that quietly reminds you that timing isn’t always against you.
🎬 The “I know this is messy but I’m watching anyway” love
→ THROUGH MY WINDOW
Let’s not pretend this is healthy.
It’s intense.
It’s dramatic.
It’s slightly obsessive.
But also?
It’s entertaining.
And sometimes you don’t want logic.
You just want to sit there and watch the chaos unfold.
Final Thoughts
Romance is not one thing.
It changes depending on:
- your mood
- your phase
- your expectations
Some days you want comfort.
Some days you want intensity.
And some days you just want to feel something — even if it doesn’t make complete sense.
And maybe that’s the point.
We don’t watch romance to find perfect love.
We watch it to understand the different ways it exists.
So tell me —
Are you in your soft love era…
or are you ready for something a little more chaotic? 👀
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